Attitudes are contagious, especially from leaders. If you want the people around you to be positive and joyful, attack your responsibilities with ENTHUSIASM. Our example is G-d Himself, who draws us toward an enthusiasm for righteousness (Song 1:4). Read the rest of this entry »
G-d’s people often have the unfortunate habit of viewing their relationship to G-d as somehow separate from their relationships with other humans. Over and over, the scriptures tell us that such a division is impossible. Our relationships with others always reflect the true status of our relationship with G-d. The two are inseparable. Read the rest of this entry »
A lack of enthusiasm in the way of righteousness can reveal attitudes of pride and rebellion. We want our own way. We pout when we don’t get it. Letting go of our disappointments and preferences and embracing G-d’s way requires us to let go of our excuses, our self-righteous reasoning, and our treasured desires. It requires an alignment with the will of G-d as our own–the true definition of servanthood. Can I be a servant of G-d without enthusiasm? Not really. Read the rest of this entry »
(See Mussar Mechanics for ideas and strategies in using this material in a family setting.)
It is easy to see why the trait of enthusiasm, properly directed, is a positive one to cultivate. Enthusiasm not only makes everything in life more palatable, it inspires and motivates us to do more, do better, and try harder. The English word “enthusiasm” means “with G-d” and originally referred to being influenced by divine inspiration or presence. This actually captures the idea of what we are aiming for very well. Godly enthusiasm is an attitude of energy and delight in doing what is right–an attitude that comes from walking in the presence of G-d. Read the rest of this entry »
Judaica stores are full of creative and original hanukkah menorahs, but for a kid, nothing compares to the delight of using a hanukkiah that you made yourself. Here are some ideas for menorahs you can make with your kids: Read the rest of this entry »
The Torah Family Mussar Project is an attempt to bring the classical practice of Mussar (planned character growth) into the family arena. Our project will feature one character trait each month (four weeks) with weekly materials and a suggested weekly focus. Below are ideas on how to use these materials in both an individual and a family setting. Read the rest of this entry »
